Parashat Chukat · Bamidbar (Numbers) 20:7-12
Speak to the Rock
וְדִבַּרְתֶּם אֶל־הַסֶּלַע
Six verses in which Moshe loses the land, and the commentators cannot agree on what exactly he did wrong.
Before you read
For a child
Miriam has just died, and the water the people had been drinking has stopped. Everyone is thirsty and frightened and angry, and they shout at Moshe. Hashem tells him exactly what to do: take the staff, gather everyone at the rock and speak to it. Moshe gathers everyone. Then he hits the rock with the staff instead. Water comes pouring out and every person and every animal drinks. But afterwards Hashem tells Moshe that he will not be the one who brings the people into the land.
For a teen
This is the passage that seals Moshe’s fate, and the Torah never says plainly what he did wrong. The charge is three words - lo he’emantem bi, you did not trust Me - and then the sentence. Forty years of leading a complaining nation through a desert, and he loses the land over six verses at a rock. Every generation of commentators has tried to name the offence and they contradict each other flatly. That is not a hole in the tradition. It is a real argument about what a leader’s failure actually consists of: the act, the temper or the impression left in everybody else’s head.
For an adult
Bamidbar 20 is a chapter of endings. Miriam dies in the first verse and the water fails in the second; Taanit 9a reads the sequence as cause and effect and attributes the well of the wilderness to her merit. Aharon dies at the end of the same chapter. Between them stand these six verses, and Ramban opens his comment on them with a flat admission: the sin of Moshe and Aharon at the waters of Meribah is not made explicit in Scripture. He then works through Rashi, Ibn Ezra and Rambam, rejects all three, adopts Rabbeinu Chananel’s reading as the best plain answer and adds a mystical one of his own. The passage also has a twin. At Refidim in Shemot 17, in almost identical circumstances, Moshe was told to strike the rock, and struck it, and nothing whatever was held against him. The distance between the two episodes is the whole question.
Bamidbar 20:7
וַיְדַבֵּר ה׳ אֶל־מֹשֶׁה לֵּאמֹר׃
Vayedaber Hashem el Moshe lemor.
Hashem spoke to Moshe, saying:
For a child
Hashem does not shout. He speaks to Moshe calmly and tells him what to do next. Everything that goes wrong later happens after this quiet moment.
For a teen
One flat verse: Hashem speaks. There is no anger in it. That matters more than it looks, because one of the major explanations of Moshe’s sin is built on exactly this - if Hashem was not angry with the people here, then Moshe had no business being angry with them either.
For an adult
The verse carries no rebuke, and Rambam makes that silence load-bearing. In Shemonah Perakim chapter 4 he argues that since Hashem meets the people’s demand for water with a plain instruction and no trace of wrath, Moshe’s anger in verse 10 was unwarranted - and worse, that Israel read his anger as evidence that Heaven was angry too, since a man of his perfection would not have been angry otherwise. Ramban attacks the inference head on: whenever Israel asked for something they genuinely needed to live on - the manna, the first water at Refidim - Hashem supplied it without displaying anger even when the asking itself was sinful. Calmness here proves nothing about the people’s guilt.
Words from the verse
- וַיְדַבֵּרvayedaberand He spokeroot ד-ב-רThe same root as vedibartem in the next verse - Hashem speaks, and what He asks Moshe to do is speak.
- מֹשֶׁהMosheMosheShemot 2:10 explains the name from the water: ki min hamayim meshitihu, I drew him out of the water. He is named for water and loses the land over water.
- לֵּאמֹרlemorsayingroot א-מ-רThe same root as amirah and ma’amar in modern Hebrew; it marks the words that follow as a message to be passed on.
Bamidbar 20:8
קַח אֶת־הַמַּטֶּה וְהַקְהֵל אֶת־הָעֵדָה אַתָּה וְאַהֲרֹן אָחִיךָ וְדִבַּרְתֶּם אֶל־הַסֶּלַע לְעֵינֵיהֶם וְנָתַן מֵימָיו וְהוֹצֵאתָ לָהֶם מַיִם מִן־הַסֶּלַע וְהִשְׁקִיתָ אֶת־הָעֵדָה וְאֶת־בְּעִירָם׃
Kach et hamateh vehak'hel et ha'edah, atah ve'Aharon achicha, vedibartem el hasela l'eineihem venatan meimav; vehotzeta lahem mayim min hasela, vehishkita et ha'edah ve'et be'iram.
Take the staff and gather the assembly, you and Aharon your brother, and speak to the rock before their eyes, and it will give its water; you shall bring out water for them from the rock, and give the assembly and their animals to drink.
For a child
The instructions are very exact. Take the staff. Gather everybody. Speak to the rock while they are all watching. Water will come, enough for every person and for all their animals. Notice that Hashem thinks about the animals being thirsty too.
For a teen
Read this one slowly, because the whole argument lives here. He is told to take the staff, and then he is told to speak. If the staff is not for hitting, what is it for? That is not a smart-alec question; it is Ramban’s question, and it is why he does not think Rashi’s reading can be the plain sense of the verse. The instruction is genuinely ambiguous, which is part of why the failure is so hard to pin down.
For an adult
Two clauses sit uneasily together: kach et hamateh, take the staff, and vedibartem el hasela, and you shall speak to the rock. Ramban presses the tension - if only speech was wanted, what was the staff doing in his hand? He points to the plagues in Egypt, where take the staff in your hand plainly means take it in order to strike with it, and adds that the miracle is no greater by speech than by striking, since as far as the rock is concerned the two are equal. Ramban then offers a different reading of the preposition: el hasela here functions as al hasela, concerning the rock, in the way el ha’amudim in Yirmiyahu 27:19 means concerning the pillars. On that reading Moshe was told to announce to the assembled people, standing in front of the rock, that Hashem would bring water out of it. Rashi’s only comment on this verse is on its last two words, ve’et be’iram: from here that the Holy One has regard for the property of Israel.
Words from the verse
- הַמַּטֶּהhamatehthe staffroot נ-ט-הFrom the root meaning to stretch or incline. The same noun means a tribe, and in modern Hebrew a headquarters - mateh klali, the general staff.
- וְדִבַּרְתֶּםvedibartemand you shall speakroot ד-ב-רThe single word the whole disagreement turns on; the same root as dibur and as aseret hadibrot.
- הַסֶּלַעhaselathe rockStill the ordinary Hebrew word for a rock or a cliff. Verse 10 has the word twice: the first time, at the pause in the middle of the verse, it is pointed hasala, and the second time it goes back to hasela.
- לְעֵינֵיהֶםl'eineihembefore their eyesroot ע-י-ןLiterally to their eyes. The phrase returns in verse 12 as l’einei bnei Yisrael - the eyes are where the sanctification was supposed to happen.
Bamidbar 20:9
וַיִּקַּח מֹשֶׁה אֶת־הַמַּטֶּה מִלִּפְנֵי ה׳ כַּאֲשֶׁר צִוָּהוּ׃
Vayikach Moshe et hamateh milifnei Hashem ka'asher tzivahu.
Moshe took the staff from before Hashem, as He had commanded him.
For a child
Moshe does exactly what he was told: he goes and takes the staff. Up to this point in the story, nothing at all has gone wrong.
For a teen
The Torah goes out of its way to say ka’asher tzivahu, as He commanded him. That is a strange thing to write three verses before someone is told they have failed. Whatever the sin was, it began after this point, and the verse looks designed to make you notice exactly where the seam is.
For an adult
Ka’asher tzivahu certifies compliance, and the root matters: צ-ו-ה is the root of mitzvah. The staff is taken milifnei Hashem, from before Hashem, and Ibn Ezra glosses that in two words: it is mateh ha’Elokim, the staff of God of Shemot 4:20, and it is the staff that had been laid up before the Testimony in chapter 17. Moshe walks out holding it towards a crowd he is about to call rebels. The verse also quietly closes off one line of defence: the man who is charged in verse 12 with not trusting Hashem is shown here doing precisely as he was told.
Words from the verse
- וַיִּקַּחvayikachand he tookroot ל-ק-חThe same verb as kach, take, at the start of verse 8; the initial lamed drops away in this form.
- מִלִּפְנֵיmilifneifrom beforeroot פ-נ-הBuilt on lifnei, before, from panim, face - the same root as el pnei hasela in the next verse.
- צִוָּהוּtzivahuHe commanded himroot צ-ו-הThe root of mitzvah and of tzav; the ending -hu is the object, him.
Bamidbar 20:10
וַיַּקְהִלוּ מֹשֶׁה וְאַהֲרֹן אֶת־הַקָּהָל אֶל־פְּנֵי הַסָּלַע וַיֹּאמֶר לָהֶם שִׁמְעוּ־נָא הַמֹּרִים הֲמִן־הַסֶּלַע הַזֶּה נוֹצִיא לָכֶם מָיִם׃
Vayak'hilu Moshe ve'Aharon et hakahal el pnei hasala, vayomer lahem: shim'u na hamorim, hamin hasela hazeh notzi lachem mayim.
Moshe and Aharon assembled the congregation in front of the rock, and he said to them: Listen now, you rebels - are we to bring you water out of this rock?
For a child
Moshe and Aharon gather everyone in front of the rock. But instead of speaking to the rock, Moshe speaks to the people, and he is not gentle with them: he calls them rebels, and asks whether he and Aharon are supposed to get water for them out of this rock. He is exhausted, and they have been shouting at him.
For a teen
Two separate things happen in one sentence, and the commentators split over which of them is the problem. He calls them hamorim, rebels - which Rambam reads as a leader losing his temper in public in front of everyone. And he says notzi, shall we bring out, in the first person plural, as though the water were his and Aharon’s to produce. Rabbeinu Chananel builds the entire sin on that one pronoun. Before you look at what the sources say, ask yourself honestly which of the two you would think worse in a person leading you.
For an adult
Rashi gives three readings of hamorim: refractory ones; or, as a Greek word, moroi, fools; or those who would instruct their own teachers. He also reads the question hamin hasela hazeh as genuine bewilderment - the rock that had given water for forty years had gone and seated itself among the other rocks when the well ceased at Miriam’s death, and the people were saying, what does it matter to you which rock you bring it out of. Rashi adds, from Vayikra Rabbah 10:9, that this was one of the places where the small held the many: the whole assembly standing before a single rock. But the word the argument turns on is notzi, we shall bring out. Rabbeinu Chananel - whose explanation Ramban calls the most likely of all those offered and the one best suited to answer a questioner - holds that this was the sin. They should have said that Hashem would bring forth water, as Moshe had said of the meat, when Hashem gives you flesh to eat in the evening. Because they did not, the people might well have concluded that Moshe and Aharon produced the water by their own wisdom. That, on this reading, is what lo kidashtem oti means.
Words from the verse
- הַקָּהָלhakahalthe congregation, the assembled crowdroot ק-ה-לStill the ordinary word for a congregation or an audience; the verb vayak’hilu opens this same verse, and Kohelet comes from the same root.
- שִׁמְעוּshim'ulisten (to many people)root ש-מ-עThe opening word of the Shema, here in the plural imperative - the last thing Moshe says before everything goes wrong.
- הַמֹּרִיםhamorimthe rebels, the defiant onesroot מ-ר-הThe same root as mamrim heyitem in Devarim 9:24, and as meri in modern Hebrew’s meri ezrachi, civil disobedience.
- נוֹצִיאnotzishall we bring outroot י-צ-אThe root of yetziah and of Yetziat Mitzrayim, in the first person plural - and that we is what Rabbeinu Chananel calls the sin.
Bamidbar 20:11
וַיָּרֶם מֹשֶׁה אֶת־יָדוֹ וַיַּךְ אֶת־הַסֶּלַע בְּמַטֵּהוּ פַּעֲמָיִם וַיֵּצְאוּ מַיִם רַבִּים וַתֵּשְׁתְּ הָעֵדָה וּבְעִירָם׃
Vayarem Moshe et yado vayach et hasela bematehu pa'amayim, vayetz'u mayim rabim, vatesht ha'edah uve'iram.
Moshe raised his hand and struck the rock with his staff twice, and much water came out, and the assembly drank, and their animals.
For a child
Moshe lifts his hand and hits the rock with the staff. Not once - twice. And the water comes out anyway, a great deal of it, and everybody drinks and so do all the animals. The water still came. That is part of what makes this story so hard to understand.
For a teen
Notice that it works. The water comes, and it comes in quantity - mayim rabim. Whatever went wrong here, the people got what they needed and nobody standing in that crowd would have thought anything had failed. The failure is invisible at the moment it happens, which is a genuinely uncomfortable idea: that you can get the outcome exactly right and still have done the thing wrong.
For an adult
Rashi reads pa’amayim as the key. The first blow yielded only drops, because striking had not been commanded; on his account they had spoken to the wrong rock and got nothing, then reasoned that perhaps it needed striking as at Refidim, where the command had indeed been vehikita batzur. Ramban’s own explanation, which he offers as the sod of the passage, turns on the same word from the opposite direction. At Chorev, Hashem had said I shall stand before you there upon the rock - His great Name upon it - and one blow was enough. Here nothing of the kind was said, and the two of them agreed between themselves to strike it twice; that agreement was the sin, and lo he’emantem bi then means you did not trust My Name to do it by faith alone. Note too that the verse says vayarem Moshe et yado, he raised his hand, and only afterwards names the staff.
Words from the verse
- וַיָּרֶםvayaremand he raisedroot ר-ו-םThe same root as terumah, a portion lifted off, and as haramat kol, raising the voice.
- וַיַּךְvayachand he struckroot נ-כ-הThe root of makkah, a blow - the eser makkot of Egypt. The initial nun drops away in this form.
- פַּעֲמָיִםpa'amayimtwiceroot פ-ע-מPa’am is a time or an occasion, and the -ayim ending is the dual, so the word means precisely two times. Ramban’s own explanation of the sin hangs on it.
- וַתֵּשְׁתְּvateshtand it drankroot ש-ת-הThe root of shtiyah, drinking, and of mishteh, a feast. The verb is singular because ha’edah, the assembly, is treated as one body.
Bamidbar 20:12
וַיֹּאמֶר ה׳ אֶל־מֹשֶׁה וְאֶל־אַהֲרֹן יַעַן לֹא־הֶאֱמַנְתֶּם בִּי לְהַקְדִּישֵׁנִי לְעֵינֵי בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל לָכֵן לֹא תָבִיאוּ אֶת־הַקָּהָל הַזֶּה אֶל־הָאָרֶץ אֲשֶׁר־נָתַתִּי לָהֶם׃
Vayomer Hashem el Moshe ve'el Aharon: ya'an lo he'emantem bi lehakdisheni l'einei bnei Yisrael, lachen lo tavi'u et hakahal hazeh el ha'aretz asher natati lahem.
Hashem said to Moshe and to Aharon: Because you did not trust Me, to make Me holy in the eyes of the children of Israel, therefore you shall not bring this congregation into the land that I have given them.
For a child
Hashem tells Moshe and Aharon that they will not be the ones to bring the people into the land. It is the saddest sentence in the whole book. Moshe goes on leading them for a long time after this, and he goes on teaching them everything he knows - but at the very end, somebody else walks in with them.
For a teen
Lo he’emantem bi - you did not trust Me. That is the whole charge, and it is deliberately unspecific: not you struck, not you were angry. Rashi says that but for this one sin they would have entered the land, which means the sentence is not the accumulated cost of forty years of small failures. It is the cost of this. Whether that is proportionate is a fair thing to argue about, and the Torah neither softens it nor explains it.
For an adult
Two roots carry the verse. He’emantem from א-מ-ן, the root of emunah and of amen, and lehakdisheni from ק-ד-ש, the root of kiddush Hashem. Rashi reads the failure through the second: had they spoken to the rock and water come out, Israel would have reasoned a fortiori - this rock neither speaks nor hears nor needs feeding, and it does what the Omnipresent says; how much more should we. Rashi also notes that Scripture is clearing them of the wilderness generation’s offence, since but for this they would have entered, and that public failure required public accounting, unlike Moshe’s earlier private doubt about slaughtering flocks and herds. On lachen he says the word carries the force of an oath, as in I have sworn to the house of Eli, and that Hashem swore at once so that Moshe should not press the decree away in prayer. Ramban, following Rabbeinu Chananel, re-reads he’emantem transitively - you did not bring them to trust in Me - or in the sense of strength, as in a place ne’eman, a firm place: you did not steel yourselves to sanctify Me in their eyes. On that reading the charge is not about Moshe’s inner faith at all, but about what the crowd was left believing.
Words from the verse
- יַעַןya'anbecause, on account ofA formal because, the word that introduces a verdict; it is the language of the prophets when a sentence is being handed down.
- הֶאֱמַנְתֶּםhe'emantemyou trusted, you had faithroot א-מ-ןThe root of emunah and of amen - the word you say after a berachah to affirm it.
- לְהַקְדִּישֵׁנִיlehakdishenito make Me holyroot ק-ד-שThe root of kadosh, kiddush and kaddish, and of the phrase kiddush Hashem.
- תָבִיאוּtavi'uyou shall bring inroot ב-ו-אThe root of bo, come, and of bruchim haba’im, welcome. Here it is the entry Moshe does not get.
What to take away
For a child
This week, when a grown-up asks you to do something in a particular way, do it that way - even if you already know a faster way that works. Ask afterwards why they wanted it done like that. And when something goes well because someone helped you, say out loud who helped. Moshe brought the water, and forgot to tell everyone who really sent it.
For a teen
The failure here happens under provocation. Moshe had been shouted at all morning by people who were in the wrong, and he was in the right, and he was tired, and he still had an instruction to carry out. Pick one situation this week where you are genuinely being treated unfairly - a sibling, a group chat, a teacher. Do the thing you were actually asked to do first, exactly as asked, and be angry about it afterwards, in private. The point is not that your anger is illegitimate. The point is that people watching will remember what you did in the ninety seconds when you were entitled to lose it, and they will draw conclusions from it that you never intended to give them.
For an adult
Take Rabbeinu Chananel’s reading and make it a week’s practice, because it is the explanation with a concrete instruction inside it. His entire account of the sin is one pronoun: notzi, shall we bring out, in a sentence that should have named Hashem. Moshe delivered the water. Nobody went thirsty. What he failed to do was tell the people where it came from. So for one week, every time something goes right that you had a hand in, name out loud the part you did not supply - the colleague who set it up, the person who covered for you, the timing, the health, the education you did not choose. Out loud to somebody, not silently to yourself, because the whole force of the objection is about what other people were left believing. Then notice how hard the first person plural fights to stay in the sentence.
A question to sit with
For a child
Hashem told Moshe to speak to the rock, and Moshe hit it instead, and the water came out anyway. Why do you think it mattered so much how the water came out, if everybody got a drink?
For a teen
The commentators cannot agree on what Moshe actually did wrong, and they are not being careless - they are reading the same six verses you just read. Does it bother you that the Torah does not say plainly? Or is that closer to how real failure works, where afterwards nobody can point to the exact moment it happened?
For an adult
Rambam puts the sin inside Moshe - a man of that stature letting anger show in public. Rabbeinu Chananel puts it entirely in the audience: what the people were left believing about where the water came from. Ramban’s objection that Aharon never got angry and was punished identically is aimed straight at that difference. When you judge someone who leads you, which of the two are you actually measuring - what was going on inside them, or the impression they left in everyone else? And which of the two would you want used on you?
The verses are from Miqra according to the Masorah (Wikisource, CC BY-SA 4.0), via Sefaria, without the cantillation marks. On this site the four-letter Name is written ה׳.
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