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Parashat Shelach · Bamidbar (Numbers) 13:1-2, 30-33

Like Grasshoppers in Our Eyes

וַנְּהִי בְעֵינֵינוּ כַּחֲגָבִים

The report that kept a generation out of the land, and the one clause in it that describes the spies rather than the giants.

Before you read

For a child

Twelve men are chosen, one from each tribe, to walk through the land of Canaan for forty days and come back and say what it is like. They come back carrying enormous fruit, and they all describe the same things: good land, strong people, big walled cities. Then one man called Kalev quiets everybody down and says we can do it, and ten of them answer with one more sentence: we cannot. Everything that happens next comes from that argument.

For a teen

Here is the part that makes this passage uncomfortable. The ten did not make anything up about the land. They walked it for forty days, they came back with the fruit and Kalev never disputes a single thing they describe. Then they added a sentence that was not a description at all: we are not able. And two verses later they said something even stranger - we looked like grasshoppers to ourselves, and that is also how we looked to them. Nobody sent them to find that out. So the question worth sitting with is not how twelve people could see different lands. They saw the same land. The question is where an accurate report stops being a report, and whether you could tell you had crossed that line while you were still talking.

For an adult

Bamidbar 13 opens with Hashem telling Moshe to send men, while Devarim 1:22 says the people came to Moshe and asked for it. Rashi, drawing on the Tanchuma, resolves this by reading שלח לך as לדעתך - at your own discretion, I am not commanding you; if you want to, send. Ramban rejects that whole framing at length. He asks the obvious question: if the mission was a concession to weak faith, then Moshe sinned too, since Devarim says וייטב בעיני הדבר. And what exactly did the spies do wrong, given that Moshe himself asked them whether the people were strong or weak and the cities open or fortified? Ramban’s answer is that sending scouts is ordinary and correct military practice, and he states the principle plainly: הכתוב לא יסמוך בכל מעשיו על הנס - Scripture does not have us rely on miracles. Moshe did it again at Yazer, Yehoshua did it at Yericho. The failure was not the reconnaissance. Sotah 35a names the mechanism precisely: Rabbi Yochanan in the name of Rabbi Meir teaches that no slander survives unless it opens with something true. The ten opened with milk and honey and the fruit in their hands, and that is exactly why the rest of it was believed. The Gemara adds that the night the people wept over the report was the eve of the ninth of Av, and that Hashem said - you wept a weeping for nothing, I will fix this night as a weeping for the generations.

Bamidbar 13:1

וַיְדַבֵּר ה׳ אֶל־מֹשֶׁה לֵּאמֹר׃

Vayedaber Hashem el Moshe lemor.

Hashem spoke to Moshe, saying:

For a child

The story starts the way many stories in the Torah start: Hashem speaks to Moshe. Nothing has gone wrong yet. Everything in this passage that goes wrong happens later, and it happens because of what people say to each other, not because of what Hashem says here.

For a teen

Worth noticing where this verse sits. It comes straight after Miriam is punished for speaking about her brother, and straight before a mission that fails through speech. The Torah rarely arranges chapters carelessly, and this one is bracketed on both sides by what a mouth can do.

For an adult

The formula is standard, but it creates the central difficulty of the passage. Here the mission reads as divine instruction; Devarim 1:22 has the people initiating it - ותקרבון אלי כלכם ותאמרו נשלחה אנשים לפנינו. Rashi harmonises the two by reading the next verse as permission rather than command. Ramban prefers to read this verse straightforwardly: the people proposed it, Moshe judged it sound and Hashem then fixed the form the mission would take - one man per tribe, each of them a נשיא. Ramban’s reason for that form is worth having: Hashem wanted all the great men equally bound up in it, אולי יזכרו וישובו, perhaps they would remember and return, and failing that, so that the decree would fall evenly on the whole people. Note the dagesh in לֵּאמֹר. The ל is doubled here because the word follows מֹשֶׁה - compare 15:37 and 20:7, against Vayikra 11:1 and 25:1, where the preceding word is different and the dagesh is gone. It is one of the small Masoretic joining effects, אתי מרחיק, visible only in a pointed text.

Words from the verse
  • וַיְדַבֵּרvayedaberand He spokeroot ד-ב-רThe root of דיבור, speech, and of עשרת הדיברות; almost everything in this passage turns on speech.
  • מֹשֶׁהMosheMosheroot מ-ש-הThe name Pharaoh’s daughter gives him in Shemot 2:10: כי מן המים משיתהו, because I drew him out of the water.
  • לֵּאמֹרlemorsayingroot א-מ-רThe formula that marks what follows as the quotation itself, which is why English usually leaves it out.

Bamidbar 13:2

שְׁלַח־לְךָ אֲנָשִׁים וְיָתֻרוּ אֶת־אֶרֶץ כְּנַעַן אֲשֶׁר־אֲנִי נֹתֵן לִבְנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל אִישׁ אֶחָד אִישׁ אֶחָד לְמַטֵּה אֲבֹתָיו תִּשְׁלָחוּ כֹּל נָשִׂיא בָהֶם׃

Shlach lecha anashim veyaturu et eretz Kena'an asher ani noten livnei Yisrael, ish echad ish echad lemate avotav tishlachu, kol nasi vahem.

Send men for yourself, and let them scout out the land of Canaan which I am giving to the children of Israel. One man for each of his fathers’ tribes you shall send, every one of them a leader among them.

For a child

Twelve men are picked, one from each of the twelve tribes, and each one is already an important person in his tribe. Their job is to walk through the land and look at it: what grows there, who lives there, what the towns are like. Then they come back and tell everyone. That is the whole task.

For a teen

Two words to hold on to. The first is שלח לך - literally ‘send for yourself’, which Rashi famously reads as ‘that is up to you, I am not the one asking’. The second is ויתורו, to scout out. That verb comes back at the end of this same parashah in the tzitzit passage: ולא תתורו אחרי לבבכם ואחרי עיניכם - do not scout after your heart and after your eyes. Same verb, and the tzitzit passage names eyes as the thing that leads people astray. The parashah that begins with men sent to look ends with a warning about looking.

For an adult

Rashi opens with the Tanchuma’s question on the juxtaposition: why is the section of the spies placed next to the section of Miriam. Because she was struck over a matter of דיבה, having spoken about her brother, and these wicked men saw it and took no lesson. He then glosses שלח לך as לדעתך - according to your own judgement; I am not commanding you; if you want to, send - since the request came from the people. Ramban devotes an unusually long passage to dismantling this. He points out that the details Moshe asks for in verses 18 to 20 are the standard questions of a campaign: which route, which cities first, open camps or fortresses. He compares Moshe at Yazer and Yehoshua at Yericho, and lays down that Scripture does not conduct its affairs by relying on miracles. Ibn Ezra glosses ויתורו simply as ויחפשו, to search out, and cites ולא תתורו - the same verb, from the tzitzit paragraph that closes this parashah. The detail worth carrying away from Ramban is what he says about כל נשיא בהם. The custom, he notes, was to send שנים אנשים מרגלים חרש, two men quietly, as Yehoshua later did; Hashem instead commanded twelve tribal princes, so that all the great men would stand equally in the outcome. Ramban offers that as the reason for the mission’s form rather than as the reason it failed - but the consequence is not hard to see. Twelve princes travelling as a public delegation come back with a report that is already public property.

Words from the verse
  • שְׁלַחshlachsendroot ש-ל-חThis word gives the parashah its name; the same root gives משלחת, a delegation.
  • וְיָתֻרוּveyaturuand let them scout outroot ת-ו-רThe root behind תייר, a tourist, and behind ולא תתורו in the tzitzit paragraph at the end of this same parashah.
  • לְמַטֵּהlematefor the tribe ofroot נ-ט-המטה is a staff and also the tribe that gathers under it; in modern Hebrew a מטה is a headquarters.
  • נָשִׂיאnasichief, leaderroot נ-ש-אThe same word used today for the President of the State of Israel; the root means to lift or carry.

Bamidbar 13:30

וַיַּהַס כָּלֵב אֶת־הָעָם אֶל־מֹשֶׁה וַיֹּאמֶר עָלֹה נַעֲלֶה וְיָרַשְׁנוּ אֹתָהּ כִּי־יָכוֹל נוּכַל לָהּ׃

Vayahas Kalev et ha'am el Moshe vayomer, alo na'aleh veyarashnu otah ki yachol nuchal lah.

Kalev hushed the people before Moshe and said: We shall surely go up and take possession of it, for we are certainly able to do it.

For a child

The crowd has started getting loud and frightened. Kalev shushes everybody so they will listen, and then says the shortest, strongest thing in the whole story: we can go up, and we can do it. He does not say the giants are small. He does not say the walls are low. He only says that we are able.

For a teen

Look closely at how Kalev wins the room, because the Gemara in Sotah says he did it by a trick. Yehoshua tried to speak first and got shouted down. So Kalev started with ‘and is this the only thing the son of Amram has done to us’ - which sounds like the opening of an attack on Moshe. The crowd went quiet to enjoy it. Then he finished the sentence: he took us out of Egypt, split the sea, brought down the manna. He got their silence under false pretences and used it to say the true thing. That is worth thinking about on its own.

For an adult

Rashi gives וַיַּהַס its plain sense, השתיק את כולם, he silenced them all, and cites Sotah 35a for the manoeuvre: Kalev cried out וכי זו בלבד עשה לנו בן עמרם, and the listeners, already sour on Moshe over the spies’ words, fell silent expecting an insult. He then delivered the list - he split the sea for us, he brought down the manna, he brought us the quail. The Gemara supplies a piece Rashi leaves out: Yehoshua had tried to speak first and was shouted down as a man with a severed head, that is, one with no children, and Kalev calculated that if he opened plainly they would stop him too. Rabba there also reads ויהס against its usual sense, as הסיתן, he won them over rather than merely quieted them. On עלה נעלה Rashi records the Gemara’s reading: even to heaven, and if he tells us to make ladders and climb up there, we will succeed in everything he says. Sforno reads the scene less dramatically: Kalev silenced a crowd that was already starting to raise its voice, as it would do in full in 14:1, and he takes עלה נעלה as a judgement, that it is fitting for us to go up since they will not stand against us; the reason כבר נמוגו כל יושבי כנען, the inhabitants have already melted, he attaches to the second half, וירשנו אותה כי יכול נוכל לה. Note the two infinitive absolutes stacked in one verse, עלה נעלה and יכול נוכל. Hebrew doubles the verb for emphasis, and Kalev uses the construction twice in half a sentence. The ten will answer with the same verb undoubled and negated.

Words from the verse
  • וַיַּהַסvayahasand he hushed, silencedroot ה-ס-הModern Hebrew still says הס for hush, and להשתיק for to silence.
  • נַעֲלֶהna'alehwe shall go uproot ע-ל-הThe root of עלייה, going up to the land, and of being called up to the Torah.
  • וְיָרַשְׁנוּveyarashnuand we shall take possession of itroot י-ר-שThe root of ירושה, an inheritance - taking the land is described as receiving what is owed, not seizing.
  • יָכוֹלyacholableroot י-כ-לOrdinary modern Hebrew for ‘can’; here it is doubled, יכול נוכל, for force.

Bamidbar 13:31

וְהָאֲנָשִׁים אֲשֶׁר־עָלוּ עִמּוֹ אָמְרוּ לֹא נוּכַל לַעֲלוֹת אֶל־הָעָם כִּי־חָזָק הוּא מִמֶּנּוּ׃

Veha'anashim asher alu imo amru, lo nuchal la'alot el ha'am ki chazak hu mimenu.

But the men who had gone up with him said: We are not able to go up against the people, for they are stronger than we are.

For a child

The other ten men answer with exactly the same word Kalev used, but with ‘not’ in front of it. Kalev said we are able. They say we are not able. Nothing new about the land has been discovered in between. The only thing that changed is who is talking.

For a teen

This is the sentence the whole passage turns on, and it is not a description of anything. Up to here the report was checkable - the fruit was in their hands, the cities really were fortified. ‘We are not able’ is a forecast, and there is no way to bring one back from a scouting trip. The last two words are worse. The Gemara in Sotah reads ממנו not as ‘than us’ but as ‘than Him’ - stronger than Hashem, as it were, so that even the owner of the house cannot get his furniture out. Whether or not the ten meant it that way, the reading exposes what the sentence does: it quietly removes one party from the calculation.

For an adult

Rashi’s comment here is four words long and carries the entire weight: כביכול כלפי מעלה אמרו - as it were, they said it upwards. He is citing Sotah 35a, where Rabbi Chanina bar Pappa says the spies spoke a serious thing at that moment: אל תקרי ממנו אלא ממנו, do not read ‘stronger than us’ but ‘stronger than Him’, as though even the householder cannot remove his own belongings. The vocalisation is identical; only the sense of the suffix changes. Note how tightly the verse is bound to Kalev’s. He said יכול נוכל; they answer לא נוכל, the same root י-כ-ל, negated. He said עלה נעלה; they answer לעלות, the same root ע-ל-ה, in the infinitive of something that will not happen. This is not a rival report. It is Kalev’s sentence with two words removed and one added, which is why it took Kalev’s audience with it. Ramban, in his long comment back on verse 2, observes that the panic was already spreading before the דיבה of the following verse, since the quarrel with Kalev happens first, and Devarim 1:28 records the people saying אחינו המסו את לבבנו.

Words from the verse
  • נוּכַלnuchalwe are ableroot י-כ-לThe identical verb Kalev used one verse earlier, now carrying לא in front of it.
  • לַעֲלוֹתla'alotto go uproot ע-ל-הThe same root as Kalev’s עלה נעלה - the entire argument runs on one verb.
  • חָזָקchazakstrongroot ח-ז-קFamiliar from חזק ואמץ, and from חזק חזק ונתחזק said on finishing a book of the Torah.
  • מִמֶּנּוּmimenuthan us, or than himThe same letters and the same vowels mean both, which is the hinge of the Gemara’s reading in Sotah 35a.

Bamidbar 13:32

וַיֹּצִיאוּ דִּבַּת הָאָרֶץ אֲשֶׁר תָּרוּ אֹתָהּ אֶל־בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל לֵאמֹר הָאָרֶץ אֲשֶׁר עָבַרְנוּ בָהּ לָתוּר אֹתָהּ אֶרֶץ אֹכֶלֶת יוֹשְׁבֶיהָ הִוא וְכָל־הָעָם אֲשֶׁר־רָאִינוּ בְתוֹכָהּ אַנְשֵׁי מִדּוֹת׃

Vayotzi'u dibat ha'aretz asher taru otah el bnei Yisrael lemor, ha'aretz asher avarnu vah latur otah eretz ochelet yoshveha hi, vechol ha'am asher ra'inu vetochah anshei midot.

And they put out an evil report of the land they had scouted, to the children of Israel, saying: The land we passed through to scout it out is a land that eats up its inhabitants, and all the people we saw in it are men of great size.

For a child

Now they say something new and much worse: that the land itself swallows the people who live in it. When they first came back they said the land was good, and they were carrying its fruit. Nothing has happened since then except that Kalev disagreed with them.

For a teen

Two things are strange about this verse. First, it contradicts what these same men said five verses earlier, in verse 27, that the land flows with milk and honey. Second, it contradicts itself: a land that eats its inhabitants would produce weak, stunted people, not giants. Ramban notices exactly that and says they were building a case rather than describing a place. Notice also the verb they use for their own mission - לתור, the same word Hashem used in verse 2. They are still using the language of the job while doing something else entirely.

For an adult

Ramban makes the sharpest distinction in the passage: מוציא דיבה is the fool who says what is false, while one who reports the truth is called מביא דיבה - as in ויבא יוסף את דבתם רעה אל אביהם, Bereshit 37:2. The Torah here writes ויוציאו, and Ramban’s structural reading follows: this was said away from Moshe and Aharon, in the tents, after the earlier public report and after Kalev had argued with them. When they saw that the people were still inclined to go up, they invented. His reading of the internal contradiction is exact: a land whose water is poor and which bereaves its inhabitants does not grow אנשי מדות; it grows weak and flabby men, small in size. So the spies had to claim the opposite - that the air of the land is overpowering and its nature heavy, its water and fruit thick and coarse, so that only giants can take that diet and everyone of ordinary constitution dies. Rashi instead reads אוכלת יושביה as an honest observation put to dishonest use, citing Sotah 35a: everywhere they went they found people burying their dead, and Hashem had arranged this for their benefit, to keep the Canaanites occupied with mourning so that they would take no notice of the spies. Rava’s formulation is that Hashem said, I meant it for good and they took it for evil. On אנשי מדות Rashi glosses men so large you must state their measurement, comparing Golyat, whose height Shmuel I 17 records as six cubits and a span.

Words from the verse
  • וַיֹּצִיאוּvayotzi'uand they put out, brought outroot י-צ-אThe verb behind הוצאת דיבה, the modern legal term for defamation; Ramban builds his whole reading on it being הוציא and not הביא.
  • דִּבַּתdibatan evil report ofroot ד-ב-בThe same word used of Yosef’s report about his brothers in Bereshit 37:2.
  • לָתוּרlaturto scout outroot ת-ו-רThe mission’s own word from verse 2, now in the mouths of the men who wrecked it.
  • אֹכֶלֶתocheleteating, consumingroot א-כ-לFrom אוכל, food - the land is cast as the eater rather than the thing that feeds you.
  • מִדּוֹתmidotmeasurements, great sizeroot מ-ד-דמידה is a measurement; in later Hebrew מידות came to mean a person’s character traits.

Bamidbar 13:33

וְשָׁם רָאִינוּ אֶת־הַנְּפִילִים בְּנֵי עֲנָק מִן־הַנְּפִלִים וַנְּהִי בְעֵינֵינוּ כַּחֲגָבִים וְכֵן הָיִינוּ בְּעֵינֵיהֶם׃

Vesham ra'inu et hanefilim bnei Anak min hanefilim, vanehi ve'eineinu kachagavim vechen hayinu be'eineihem.

And there we saw the Nefilim, the sons of Anak, of the Nefilim; and we were like grasshoppers in our own eyes, and so we were in their eyes.

For a child

The last sentence is the one to remember. They say: next to those enormous people we felt as small as grasshoppers. And then they add something else - and that is how we looked to them too. But nobody asked the giants. The ten men are telling everyone what the giants thought, and they cannot possibly know.

For a teen

The first half of this sentence is honest and even brave. We felt tiny. Anyone would have. The second half is where it goes wrong, and the Gemara in Sotah says so bluntly: granted ‘in our own eyes’, but ‘so we were in their eyes’ - from where did they know that. Something happens between the two halves of one verse. A feeling about yourself gets promoted into a fact about the world by being placed in someone else’s mouth. That move is not ancient and it is not rare. It is what happens every time you decide in advance what a room thinks of you and then behave accordingly.

For an adult

Rashi identifies the נפילים as giants descended from Shamchazai and Azael who fell from heaven in the generation of Enosh, and glosses ענק as those who מעניקים חמה בקומתן - so tall that they wear the sun like a collar, ענק being a neck-ring. On the last clause he answers the Gemara’s challenge with the Gemara’s own solution: we heard them saying to one another, there are ants in the vineyards that look like men. Sotah 35a states the objection in Rav Mesharshiya’s name - the spies were liars; granted ונהי בעינינו כחגבים, but וכן היינו בעיניהם, from where could they have known - and answers that the Canaanites were eating a mourners’ meal beneath cedars, the spies climbed the trees and overheard them. Sforno takes the clause in the opposite direction: yes, we were grasshoppers in their eyes or less, and for that very reason they did not rise against us, because they thought us beneath their attention. Read that way, the same sentence is a strategic advantage the spies could not recognise. Or HaChaim goes further inward: the phrase reveals that they felt inferior even to the ordinary Canaanites who were not men of stature at all, comparing their own build to the average person they had seen. Between Rashi, Sforno and Or HaChaim the disagreement is really about which half of the verse is doing the work - whether the failure lies in what the giants thought, or in what the spies had already concluded before anyone climbed a tree.

Words from the verse
  • הַנְּפִילִיםhanefilimthe Nefilim, the fallen onesroot נ-פ-לThe only other appearance in the Torah is Bereshit 6:4, in the generation before the flood.
  • עֲנָקAnakAnak, a giantroot ע-נ-קModern Hebrew ענק simply means a giant, and ענקי means enormous.
  • כַּחֲגָבִיםkachagavimlike grasshoppersroot ח-ג-בחגב is a grasshopper, and one of the few insects Vayikra 11 lists as permitted.
  • בְעֵינֵינוּve'eineinuin our eyesroot ע-י-ןעין is both an eye and a spring of water; בעיני in ordinary Hebrew means ‘in my opinion’.
  • בְּעֵינֵיהֶםbe'eineihemin their eyesroot ע-י-ןThe same word as the one before it, carrying a different possessive ending - the only difference between the two halves of the verse is whose eyes they are.

What to take away

For a child

This week, when something feels too big for you - a test, a race, a room full of people you do not know - try saying two separate sentences out loud instead of one. First say what is actually true: this is hard, or that boy is much bigger than me. Then stop. Do not add the second half. The ten men were right about the giants and wrong about themselves, and they got the two mixed into one sentence. Keep yours apart.

For a teen

Take one thing this week you have already decided you cannot do, and split it into two lists on paper. On the left, only what you have actually observed - the marks, the timing, the actual size of the thing. On the right, everything that is a verdict rather than an observation. The word ‘cannot’ always belongs on the right. The ten men’s report would have been faultless if it had ended at verse 28. Then do the second half of the exercise, which is harder. Find one place where you have told yourself what somebody else thinks of you - a teacher, a group, someone you want to impress - and ask whether you actually heard them say it, or whether you supplied it. וכן היינו בעיניהם is the spies telling everyone what the giants thought, on no evidence. Most people run that sentence about themselves several times a day.

For an adult

There is a specific practice hidden in the structure of these verses, and it is worth a week. First, audit the seam. The ten’s report is accurate through verse 28 and collapses in verse 31, and the break is between a description and a conclusion. Take one decision you have been carrying - a career move, a difficult conversation, a health matter, something you have described to yourself as not viable - and write out only what you have actually verified. Then look at what is left over once you have removed it. That residue is your verse 31. Second, run Rav Mesharshiya’s question on yourself. He asks of וכן היינו בעיניהם: from where could they have known this. Find one place this week where you have reported another person’s estimate of you as though it were data - what the committee thinks, what your family thinks, what the room thinks - and establish whether anybody said it. Third, and this is Kalev’s contribution, notice that he did not argue with the facts. He silenced the crowd and reframed the same information: יכול נוכל לה. Once this week, when you are the one in the room who thinks the thing is doable, say it out loud before the mood has set. Kalev spoke while the crowd was still forming its view. Yehoshua and Kalev were the only two of that generation who entered the land, and the difference began with one sentence spoken at the right moment.

A question to sit with

For a child

All twelve men walked through exactly the same land, for exactly the same forty days. Why do you think ten of them came back frightened and two of them came back sure? What might have been different about the men rather than about the land?

For a teen

The ten men said something about themselves - we were like grasshoppers in our own eyes - and the Torah reports it without correcting it. Is being honest about your own fear a form of truthfulness, or is it already a kind of decision? Where would you draw the line between admitting you are afraid and concluding that you cannot?

For an adult

Sforno reads the final clause as an unexpected asset: the giants thought so little of us that they could not be bothered to attack. Rashi and the Gemara instead supply an overheard sentence to justify how the spies could know. Both are answering the same discomfort, which is that the verse ends with the spies reporting a thought that was never theirs to report. Where in your own life does your estimate of yourself get attributed to other people, and which of the two arrived first? And is there a situation now where, like Sforno’s reading, being underestimated would actually serve you if you stopped resenting it?

Parashat Shelach

All 29 passages

The verses are from Miqra according to the Masorah (Wikisource, CC BY-SA 4.0), via Sefaria, without the cantillation marks. On this site the four-letter Name is written ה׳.

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